So I have been a unicorn for about 4 years now. If you don’t know what a unicorn is I’ll break it down for you! This term is used as a reminder that bi poly women are people with their own desires, needs, and pre-existing lives, and not fantasy figures or pets.Polyamory, which is defined as the state or practice of maintaining multiple sexual and/or romantic relationships simultaneously with the full knowledge and consent of all the people involved, the term Unicorn is used to describe a bisexual person (usually though not always female) who is willing to join an existing couple, often with the presumption that this person will date and become sexually involved with both members of that couple, and not demand anything or do anything which might cause problems or inconvenience to that couple. As a unicorn i can just be sexual with partners with out attachment. Or I can be wanting attachments. It’s hard for me because I’ve always had a bubbly personality however I get nervous I can’t express it no matter how mature I can be due to me being scared they won’t like me or I’m not calm enough. Or that they think im immature which is quite the opposite. I have a bubbly personality and it’s one of the biggest things that keep me happy about me. In my unicorn experience I haven’t had this problem but they can tell I’m nervous and they end up thinking it’s not what I want. I’ve had a few times as a unicorn where a partner got jealous (both male and female) and had to remove myself not to ruin any relationships. I try not to hunt as a unicorn because I don’t want to push boundaries . I currently sit as a unicorn just living my magical life.
